Today is the day. We made it to 24 weeks! Why is 24 weeks such a big deal? Because 24 weeks is considered viability. The point at which, if born, a healthy baby has a good chance of surviving.
Of course it wouldn't be optimal if a baby were born at this point. It would be months in the NICU, touch and go for awhile with many ups and downs. On top of all of that there could be developmental problems later on in life. But still...when you go from one baby who was given zero chance of survival even at full term to another baby that has been deemed healthy (so far) and at the 24 week mark...what an amazing feeling.
I think the actual percentage is upwards of 80% or more chance of survival if born today. I'll take those odds! It is still such a rollercoaster but just for one minute, just for today, I want to take a second and pat myself on the back. Take a break from the constant worry and stress and be thankful that we made it this far.
As if to make today even more poignant, Asher (a special day means no sarcastic "pet" names like Sperm Donor) felt the baby kick for the first time last night. While he and I are not together, I've given him free rein to touch my stomach at any time. I think it's important for both him and the baby. Every time he touches my stomach the baby kicks, but last night was the first time he felt it. He didn't say much about it, but he went very quiet. I think it affected him more than he's letting on.
As for me, I'm just excited about this weekend! So many good things happening that I will have a ton to post about next week. I just need to get through the next 48 hours of work so I can get out of here!
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ReplyDeleteAnyway - CONGRATULATIONS on making it to 24 weeks! What a great goal to meet - and then pass with flying colors (which you will). I was just thinking about you this morning and the exciting weekend you have coming up. Have a great time and enjoy every minute of it!